I have a story to tell. I've been sitting on it for a while now, and though I've alluded to it, I've never been quite sure how to tell it.... and more importantly IF (you'll understand why when it's over) But here goes! Late last fall, I was all about the dating apps. Tinder, Hinge, … Continue reading Thanks… But No Thanks: A Dating Story
Last night. In the middle of eating dinner. I received a text. From a guy. That I went out on two dates with. In April... ...of 2017. Now, this text didn't say much and was clearly copied and pasted and sent out to all of his phone contacts. He finished his movie (he won awards) … Continue reading You Know It’s Time to Delete that Number When…
A classic song. From a classic movie (Heath Ledger, may you Rest In Peace). So what the movie version is a remake... It's classic and it's simple. So simple, but oh so very hard to express sometimes. Expressing what you want, and even more... what you need, can be the hardest part of dating. And … Continue reading I Want You to Want Me
Okay so I'm not about to sing you TLC's No Scrubs. And despite my love for Destiny's Child, Bills Bills Bills has never been my anthem. I know the title makes it sound a bit like every man needs an expensive car, a high paying job and a fancy house... but that's not it. I … Continue reading 3 Things a Guy Needs to Own Before He is Datable
So remember the guy I hooked up with over Christmas? No? At my housewarming party? Still no?... Well, he's in law school in another state and we've kept in touch off and on since the holidays. He's was back in Boston last week and while I'm 99.999% positive whatever relationship we would have would be … Continue reading Who’s on First?
Sex. Something everyone does but no one really talks about. At least not in the way we should. Especially women. If talking about it makes you uncomfortable (or you don't want to hear about my sex life), now is the time to check out. You know who you are. Emergency exits are located in the … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Sex
Confession: I have this irrational (?) fear that at some point Coach will ghost me. Even though another part of me thinks that after dating someone for five months (see Coach vs. Cat), the acceptable ghosting period has long passed. But hey, people have done worse! For those of you living under a rock... or … Continue reading Can a Ghost be a Friendly Ghost When it Comes to Dating?