The last few weeks have been fairly uneventful. I’ve been focused on getting back to my regular healthy eating and exercise routine, and Coach has been on vacation. I don’t know if y’all have figured this out yet, but I get bored kind of easily and thrive on constant change. That’s exactly why I cleaned … More Coach’s Return & My Boyfriend Phobia
So, I just got back from vacation. Well, technically I’ve been back since Sunday night, but who’s really keeping track? #me It’s actually felt like forever that I’ve been back at work. And forever since Coach has been gone. Oh yeah, did I mention that he left for a two week vacation on Saturday. He … More The Vacation Effect: Weight Loss and Dating
I have a story to tell. I’ve been sitting on it for a while now, and though I’ve alluded to it, I’ve never been quite sure how to tell it…. and more importantly IF (you’ll understand why when it’s over) But here goes! Late last fall, I was all about the dating apps. Tinder, Hinge, … More Thanks… But No Thanks: A Dating Story
Last night. In the middle of eating dinner. I received a text. From a guy. That I went out on two dates with. In April… …of 2017. Now, this text didn’t say much and was clearly copied and pasted and sent out to all of his phone contacts. He finished his movie (he won awards) … More You Know It’s Time to Delete that Number When…
A classic song. From a classic movie (Heath Ledger, may you Rest In Peace). So what the movie version is a remake… It’s classic and it’s simple. So simple, but oh so very hard to express sometimes. Expressing what you want, and even more… what you need, can be the hardest part of dating. And … More I Want You to Want Me
Ok so last night was a bit of a weird one… but overall fun. Following work, I went to the Trillium Beer Garden on the Greenway to meet up with two different groups of friends. My friend “Ike” was there and he insisted that include him in whatever blog post I write today… so hi … More I Plead Not Guilty
Okay so I’m not about to sing you TLC’s No Scrubs. And despite my love for Destiny’s Child, Bills Bills Bills has never been my anthem. I know the title makes it sound a bit like every man needs an expensive car, a high paying job and a fancy house… but that’s not it. I … More 3 Things a Guy Needs to Own Before He is Datable
So remember the guy I hooked up with over Christmas? No? At my housewarming party? Still no?… Well, he’s in law school in another state and we’ve kept in touch off and on since the holidays. He’s was back in Boston last week and while I’m 99.999% positive whatever relationship we would have would be … More Who’s on First?
Sex. Something everyone does but no one really talks about. At least not in the way we should. Especially women. If talking about it makes you uncomfortable (or you don’t want to hear about my sex life), now is the time to check out. You know who you are. Emergency exits are located in the … More Let’s Talk About Sex
Confession: I have this irrational (?) fear that at some point Coach will ghost me. Even though another part of me thinks that after dating someone for five months (see Coach vs. Cat), the acceptable ghosting period has long passed. But hey, people have done worse! For those of you living under a rock… or … More Can a Ghost be a Friendly Ghost When it Comes to Dating?